Change Is Inevitable. Here's How To Handle It.

Change Is Inevitable. Here's How To Handle It.

Dealing With Change

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"When you're feeling unsure about the change in your life, turn to those close to you for a fresh point of view and to help make your change seem more familiar."



Change can be hard. This is especially true for men since they tend to be creatures of habit. Some habits or ruts are comfortable, which is OK, but sometimes a necessary change needs to occur. For that reason, it’s a good idea to understand the process of change. Equipping yourself with the tools to deal with and embrace change will effectively ease difficult transition periods.

Keep in mind that change, even if it is tricky to maneuver, is not always bad. New girlfriends or changes in relationships, new jobs or relocating for a new career are changes that may enrich your life. I’ve outlined some tips on how to accept, deal with and embrace such changes as they come your way. As you read, keep in mind that changes in life mean that you’re growing as a person.

Focus on the good things


When faced with a change that will entirely upset your life, it can be really easy to dwell on all the negative aspects. For instance, moving in with your girlfriend can evoke terrifying images of her sitting around all day in her sweats nagging you, or of not being able to invite the guys over for a boozy game of poker. Instead of focusing on the aspects you won’t like, think of all the great things the change will bring, such as sharing a bed with her, early morning nooky and fresh sheets. Although the move will still be a huge adjustment, you will find yourself more into the idea and ready to embrace the change. The best way to keep on top of this sort of fear is to keep a mental repertoire of the things you look forward to in the change, and pull them out as needed to keep yourself calm and happy. Try to think of new and exciting things to anticipate, and if you’re really in doubt, ask others for help in coming up with them.

Involve those around you in the change


It’s easy to have a one-track mind when you’re faced with a big change. Use your support systems; family and friends are invaluable when it comes to making you realise what a great thing is happening to you. They are able to put a positive spin on the change because they have a whole different perspective on your life and will, therefore, consider elements that you haven’t. So, when you’re feeling unsure about the change in your life, turn to those close to you for a fresh point of view and to help make your change seem more familiar. If you have to move to a new city, ask your friends to help you move there or tour the city with you. These types of activities will make the change feel friendlier, and you’ll look forward to it in no time.

Be open-minded about the change


Chances are that you detest the thought of change because you’re happy with the way things are. You may feel that because you like the way things are now, it’s the only way you’ll ever like them. It’s important to recognise that there are many situations that will make you happy, and sticking to the one that you’re comfortable with might actually cause you to miss out on all the others. Also, be aware that it’s sometimes necessary to relinquish control of your destiny in favor of what falls in your lap.

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How To: Be An Optimist

Be An Optimist

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Optimism is good for you. It's good for your health. It can nurture friendships and professional relationships and improve communication skills. Optimism can't -- and shouldn't -- be dictated by the economy or other exterior factors. It should come from an attitude within -- positive reactions that are borne of a philosophical approach to bad news and unfortunate experiences -- and like any skill, it takes time to develop.

What follows are some ways that will help teach you how to be an optimist.

Set boundaries on downers


Paul Stanley from KISS used to say that if you wanted to learn about terrible things and have your spirit crushed, turn on the news. If you wanted a good time, go to a KISS concert. And believe it or not, the man had a point.

Limit your exposure to pessimistic people and heaps upon heaps of upsetting media. The truth is that you can find both in great abundance these days, and they do nothing for your sense of optimism. Try to trim the Debbie Downers out of your life, and choose a single source for news and media and stick to it, as opposed to jumping from site to site and story to story. Doing the latter, one is bound to chronically come across awful stories that, when taken cumulatively, breed pessimism.

Smile more often


It may sound like the tritest advice imaginable, but smiles really do foster optimism. There are even some research studies that, while admittedly remain too subjective for serious scientific consideration, suggest even a “fake it till you make it” approach can actually affect your physiology as well as the physiologies of those around you.

Believe in the best possible outcome


Quite simply, start trying to cultivate a glass-half-full perspective. When reasonable, assume the best possible outcome of events, or at least focus on the most hopeful aspects of a situation. Doing so doesn't make you someone who’s blind to reality; it just provides you with a fresh perspective.

In discussing Ronald Reagan, George Will, writing for the Washington Post, said that optimists, like Reagan, "do not deal in unrealities… [they] create realities that matter -- perceptions, aspirations, allegiances." While it's important to face facts as they are, it's also important to approach them in creative ways and to communicate them accordingly.

Learn to respond constructively


Instead of latching on to the worst aspects, seek out the positives, especially when talking with friends about their personal or professional situations. Turn off knee-jerk “no” reactions, and take active steps toward realizing your goals rather than passively letting things happen to you. Do the same with your friends: When one loses a job, you can commiserate, but you can also remind them of their positive attributes as well as remind them of previous victories in their lives, ones that were redeeming and inspirational. And you can do this without being too Norman Vincent Peale (where “everything is rosy”), through the power of positive thinking.

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The Secret Way To Make Sure You Never Get Fired

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We all want to be great at something. Usain Bolt didn’t end up making cocky gestures at the finish line because he was pretty good at lots of sports, Stephen Hawking hasn’t inspired legions of astrophysicists by working on his haikus and David Copperfield isn’t famous for being a great all-rounder.

So, logically, in the professional world, especially in tough times, it makes sense to get really, really good at what you do. Right?

Wrong. Those in the know (business leaders, recruitment professionals, career coaches) are pushing a new buzzword: cross-train.

What is Professional Cross-Training?


Cross-training has been around in the world of athletics for some time, but the phrase can generally be used to express how the combination of two activities produces an improvement -- an interaction effect -- substantially greater than either one can produce on its own. We’re talking complementary activities here, like law and accounting, not law and ceramics. Think about how diet and exercise, when combined, are substantially more effective for weight loss than either diet or exercise alone (or diet and Sudoku combined).
There are two types of cross-training: the kind that you pursue yourself, like learning a new language or getting tech-savvy, and in-company development kind, which could include things like job rotation or management training. Essentially, this means any training geared toward helping you expand your scope of knowledge and skills beyond the confines of your own professional discipline.

If you’re a journalist, learning photography would be an effective compliment. If you’re a yoga teacher, then dance or meditation might be useful. A business consultant might consider picking up skills like public speaking, social media proficiency or HR negotiations.

Why Cross-Train?


The experts agree that if time is scarce, it’s better to learn a new skill than build on the ones you already have. In most fields, honing complementary skills is just as valuable, if not more so, than delving more deeply into the area in which you’re most competent. Having many areas of expertise instead of just one will make you seem like a more well-rounded employee and more useful to have in the office if extra work needs to be done or someone is needed to cover another employee’s tasks. For example, in many cases, the guy who is comfortable with technology, communications and client relations is more useful than the guy who is just an IT whiz.

In addition, the more skills you possess, the more your expertise is apparent and accessible to colleagues and management. Cross-training promotes versatility, giving you the edge in a dynamic economy, where layoffs and belt-tightening mean that fewer employees need to know how to do more. Building new strengths is more important, they say, than improving on known weaknesses -- unless you’re training for the Olympics.

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Why You Need A Big Ego To Be A Good Leader

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"The result showed that narcissistic bosses are better leaders than the average humble guy."



It's a new year, and a new you. So if you've tended to think of yourself as humble, maybe it's time to make a change, according to a new study.

Having a huge ego, a need for attention and being an overall narcissist doesn’t sound like a trio of compliments but shows that those qualities can make you a good leader, found the study.

A quartet of professors from IMD business school, Penn State, and Erlangen-Nuremberg University found that the aforementioned qualities tend to lead to innovation and daring decision-making.

The professors doing the research examined how 78 CEOs and 33 major American pharmaceutical companies did in the biotech boom from 1980 to 2008. They accounted for narcissism by measuring how often the CEOs’ photos were found in annual reports, how frequently they were mentioned in press releases and their overall compensation compared to the person second in command.

Then the professors evaluated how fast and intensely the CEOs had adapted to the rise of biotechnology.

The result showed that narcissistic bosses are better leaders than the average humble guy. That’s because they tend to see a shot at glory where others might see excessive risk, and that aggression to make a move is where the narcissists are more rewarding to their companies.

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If You Like Football & Women, You Need To Read This

Girlfriends & Football

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  • Nothing gets people invested in a sport more than a friendly wager.

  • Make her look the part with her own feminine jersey.

  • Buy beer for you, but whip up girly cocktails for her.


"Money, as a wise man once noted, is a wonderful motivator."



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There are few things that divide the sexes quite like football. To most men, the game is a borderline religious experience, while to many women, it’s 60 minutes of unabashed violence punctuated by quaint little committee meetings. So, how do you mend the gender divide and convince your girlfriend to actually watch a game with you? The answer is easier than you may think. Simply follow our suggestions below to get your significant other interested in -- or at least, willing to accept -- America’s most popular spectator sport.

Sign her up for a football pool


Money, as a wise man once noted, is a wonderful motivator. Prompt your girlfriend to take an active interest in the game by signing her up for a football pool. Once she puts her money on the line she’ll have extra motivation to keep track of what’s going on. Who knows, her strategy of selecting the team with the prettiest colors and cutest animals may even pay off.

Buy her a feminine-cut official jersey


Every woman loves to dress up. Make your girlfriend feel like part of the game by buying her a jersey. Unlike the billowy uniforms of old, there are a wide range of jerseys featuring flattering feminine cuts and pink hues. These attractive new designs have made women's apparel football’s fastest-growing apparel business.

Make girly drinks during the game


Let’s face it: You’d probably watch a 12-hour chick flick marathon if you consumed enough beer; the same is true of your girlfriend. If you keep her plied with enough Cosmopolitans and Fuzzy Navels, she won’t mind what’s on the tube!

Draw her in with colorful gossip


Your girlfriend will never become interested in football if you begin by explaining the intricacies of the Over/Under 4-3 defense. Instead, draw her in by regaling her with stories about ongoing feuds and off-field relationship news. If you present the stories in the guise of hot gossip you’ll be sure to pique her interest.

Throw the football around with her


Does your girlfriend think a quarterback is a refund? Give her a better appreciation of the greatest sport in the world by tossing around the pigskin in your backyard. This simple and fun activity will allow her to better relate to the action on the field and it will give you the opportunity to explain some of the tenets of the game in a way she can easily grasp.

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How To Fit A Workout Into Your Crazy Schedule


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"When it comes to time management, nothing is more important than prioritization."
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It's time to break out the MBA again.

But I'm not going to "proactivate" you with a bunch of management buzzwords, and that's mostly because I think the majority of hyper-detailed time-management stuff is a bunch of bullsh*t.

It's not that scientific


I will not preach a bunch of time management theories. Several books have been written on this subject; some of them are okay, others, not so much. I'm not a master of time management, and I have no intention of becoming one. To be honest, I'm dubious about it as a discipline. For me, it is closely aligned with what I call self-help bullsh*t.

A former employer of mine had a policy where all management staff had to take a well-known two-day self-help course on being exceptionally productive through adopting a [lucky] number of mannerisms. I'm being deliberately obtuse because I'm going to slam the course now, and I've had enough threats of lawsuits about my writing to know I don't enjoy the experience.

The course was the most mindless drivel I'd ever been exposed to. Two days of having common sense that you should've learned by the age of six twisted and "paradigmed" and "proactivated" into management mumbo jumbo until my brain turned into protoplasm. Then they try to sell you on day planners and software and… and you just want to barf. I'm skeptical if a time-management guru has ever really helped anyone manage their time better.

Nevertheless, I didn't want to crap on the entire industry after taking just one course, so I read a couple of the most popular time-management books and they just confirmed my suspicions that this is common sense overcomplicated so someone can sell a book or a course, along with a bunch of add-on crap. I worked over a decade in marketing, and I know a scam when I see one.

Anyway, I guess I can't just rant about how it's all a bunch of crap and not give you any advice at all, because that wouldn't be terribly productive, so here is my common-sense-based time un-management advice.



Prioritize


When it comes to time management, nothing is more important than prioritization. An oft-used axiom is that if everything is a priority, then nothing is a priority. You must make the decision that exercise is important to you and you will put it before many other things. Another axiom is that no one lies on their deathbed wishing they'd spent more time at the office. Conversely, I think there are probably plenty of people who lie on that same bed wishing they'd spent more time exercising, especially since if they had then they probably wouldn't be dying right then.

Also, know that being in great health can make you more productive at everything else you do. If you're in shape, then you can be a better husband, a better dad and even a better employee.

If you make exercise and healthy eating a high priority, you'll find the time to do it.

Plan


I've written about this before. You know your life and schedule better than anyone, so you need to do a bit of figuring your own stuff out. Figure out what time of day works best for you to exercise. Figure out your running or cycling routes. Figure out how you are going to fit in breakfast. Figure out which gym has the most convenient location for you. Figure out that spandex is a bad idea.

Figure all this out, then make a schedule and endeavor to stick to it.

Adapt


Does this even require explanation? Things don't always work out the way you plan, so don't give up on the fundamental goals -- just change the plan and try again.

Remember what Field Marshal von Moltke said: "No plan of battle survives contact with the enemy."

Be Efficient


Thirty minutes of going hard with the weights is far better than an hour of farting around in the gym. Running hard for 30 minutes burns more calories than walking for an hour. It also is better for your heart, lungs and cholesterol, and it improves your ability to train harder with weights.

Efficiency doesn't just apply to exercise. You can pack an entire week's worth of gym clothes and take them to the office on Monday so you never have to worry about missing a workout because you don't have fresh attire. I found that lunchtime is a good time for weightlifting, and it allows me to skip those fattening coworker trips to the Chinese food buffet.

If you get creative, you can think of other ways in your life to exercise efficiently.

Think!


You've got a brain; use it. What do you do that wastes time? Where are the holes in your schedule? What do you need to do to fit exercise into your schedule?

Time management: You figure it out.



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How To Customize Your Training To Achieve The Ultimate Physique


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When guys attempt to decide on a training program, one of the first questions they ask is: “What’s the best set and rep scheme for gaining muscle?”

Trainers get this question all the time, and it is one of the most difficult to answer accurately. You’ve most likely read a variety of training articles, each claiming to have the best formula for muscle growth. And while some are better than others, most of them work pretty well.

So the simplest and most accurate answer to this question is “all of them.”

Unfortunately, that's also the most complicated answer.

See, it's like this: Your muscles are made up of various types of fibers, and the rep ranges you best respond to is going to be a factor partially determined by your particular fiber make-up.
Of course, without dissecting you (which, while undoubtedly fun, would not be very efficacious in terms of your training), there really isn’t any way to tell you what your general fiber make-up is, or what type of rep and set schemes you’re going to respond to. None of which really answers the question, of course.
Looking at it from a different angle, we can begin to decide on set and rep schemes based on a goal -- some are better for pure growth, and others for a mix of both strength and size.

Option 1 - Size and Nothing But Size


Let us assume for a moment that the training focus is entirely on growth, and not at all on strength. In that case, your concentration should be on the higher rep ranges -- sets of 10-12, 12-15 or even as high as 20 are on the menu. As for the number of sets, well, that is something that will be determined by the number of exercises you do for a particular body part.

It helps to think of things in terms of total volume. If you are training with higher reps, I would try to limit a specific muscle group to around 120 reps per workout.

Here is an example using chest exercises:

-Bench Press - 4×15 (60 reps)
-Incline Dumbbell Press - 3×12 (36 reps)
-Dumbbell Fly - 2×10 (20 reps)

We’re looking at a total of 116 reps there, give or take any extras your were able to squeeze out or reps you were unable to complete.

The reason for the high reps if your focus is primarily on hypertrophy is, once more, fiber make-up. You are training for what is sometimes called sarcoplasmic hypertrophy, or fluid hypertrophy, a term that is sometimes debated.

Either way, high rep training is the simplest, fastest and most visibly obvious way for beginners to pack on mass. The drawback is that the higher rep schemes used in this type of training necessitate very light (in relative terms, at least) loads to complete the set.

As a result, strength tends not to increase. In fact, in some cases, you may even notice a decrease if you attempt heavier training.

This is typical “bodybuilder” type training -- all show and no go, as they say.

You’ll look strong, but you won’t be strong. However, if all you’re going for is a good look in a tight shirt, this may sound like something you might be interested in.

In most cases, when new trainees hit the gym, they do some incarnation of this, although in many cases it’s as simple as three sets of 10 for four exercises. (As an aside, even in this case, they’re hitting 120 reps.) They progress a bit and then stall out. As with all things, when it comes to training, everything works, but nothing works forever.

From there, trainees look to change it up, and that bring us to option two.

Option Two – Size and Strength


If you’re looking to get both big and strong, you have a more difficult road ahead of you, but with a greater goal at the end. In this case, we’d be talking about training with heavier loads and lower total volume.

Strength increases are the result of training with heavy weight, which by default will place a pretty stringent limit on the amount of reps you can perform on a given set. Strength-oriented training relies on performing sets of 1-5 reps, with the average being 3.

Heavy training is not only optimal for strength gains, but it can also be used to accrue a serious amount of muscle. Training with high weight recruits what are known as Type II b muscle fibers, which are the densest fibers and have the most potential for muscle growth. By lifting heavy, we activate these quickly, which can potentially lead to mass gain -- fast.

As you might imagine, it becomes necessary to change things around in a given workout to meet your goals. It’s quite possible to increase size without strength, and the reverse is true here: You can get a lot stronger without getting bigger.

Once more we need to look at things from the perspective of overall volume. In order to allow for the necessary weight, we need to keep the reps per set pretty low. If you followed the generally bullsh*t training most clueless meatheads drop on you, the upper limit for sets would be 3 or 4 per exercise. With heavy training, this would leave you at about 9-15 total reps. Your strength would increase, but this is just not enough to stimulate growth. Next Page >>



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First Choice: Harry. Second Choice: Who Knows?


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So, Fabio's become the latest Italian captain to abandon a sinking ship. And everyone seems set on Harry. But is the 64-year-old certain jettison Tottenham for the England job? Let's run through the FA's long list...

Getty ImagesHARRY REDKNAPP
He's got the backing of the media. And, perhaps more importantly, Wayne Rooney. His work at Spurs ("Two points in eight games," anyone?), canny press operating and nationality mark him out as the sensible choice. But would he want to quit an irresistible Spurs squad who adore him and the day-to-day club management he claims to crave? And as Daniel Levy showed during Luka Modrić stand-off with Chelsea last summer: he's a stubborn bastard.
SKYBET ODDS: 2/7

Getty ImagesSIR TREVOR BROOKING
No long-term fix, but Sir Trev's the man on the inside, hugely popular with the public and has (albeit) brief experience fighting managerial fires. Granted, his one dip into management didn't end with glory, but his attempt at guiding West Ham out of relegation bother in 2004 was admirable. Could easily see England through to the Euros.
SKYBET ODDS: N/A

Getty ImagesSTUART PEARCE
Perhaps the most uninspired choice the FA could make. Which might make him the most obvious. Installed as the Olympics team boss, which would prove a fairly sizable hurdle, but the England job would surely trump even London 2012. Qualified success with the Under-21s has somewhat buried his fairly bleak tenure at pre-billions Manchester City.
SKYBET ODDS: 5/1

Getty ImagesJOSE MOURINHO
Once claimed he was "hours" from accepting the job before Capello,
José's the one starry name that would sate the masses should Redknapp stick with N17. Short term? Probably not, with Real Madrid finally set to overhaul Barcelona's La Liga stranglehold. However, post-Euro 2012: perhaps. And if not England, then there's decent money on him succeeding 'Arry at the Lane...
SKYBET ODDS: 10/1

Getty ImagesROY HODGSON
A sort of Poor Man's Harry, Uncle Woy's likely to be feel far more comfortable ditching West Brom than Harry is North London and has a robust CV featuring some commendable international stints. However, his Anfield debacle flung him down the pecking order and he's not a name to reboot fan interest.
SKYBET ODDS: 10/1

GUUS HIDDINK
The wily old Dutchman loves a bit of ad-hoc freelance work, and is out of work after failing to negotiate Turkey's Euro 2012 entry. Vast, vast experience and with his stock still high on these shores after his impressive half season at Chelsea, he could be the canniest short term appointment. He'd certainly know how to handle those Stamford Bridge rebrobates...
SKYBET ODDS: 5/1

Getty ImagesDAVID BECKHAM
An utterly bonkers proposition, but hear us out a minute. Who else could command this current England squad's respect and attention like English football's living, breathing, pants-flogging icon? Of course, if he's even halfway intelligent, Becks wouldn't risk harming his legacy by considering such a job. But, as his odd stint as chief cheerleader at the South Africa World Cup showed, he'd certainly spruce up our bench sartorially.
SKYBET ODDS: 66/1



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Time for belly off

THE SETBACK 
My high school football coaches told me I needed to bulk up—they just didn't tell me how. So I hit every fast-food joint in town, and it worked. I gained 70 pounds before my sophomore year and kept piling them on through high school. Then Concordia University recruited me to play football, and I knew I would have to be even bigger. But the larger I grew, the less endurance I had. As I pushed my body toward 300 pounds, my energy level plummeted and I feared for my health. 

THE WAKE-UP CALL
After a fast-food binge at five different restaurants, my belt literally snapped off my body. Even that embarrassment wasn't enough. During one game I took a nasty tackle that ripped up my knee so badly I couldn't play. Now my weight wasn't even useful anymore.

THE FOOD 
I wanted to ease into healthy choices, so I started replacing my favorites, like fast-food burgers, with homemade versions. I made the patties with extra-lean ground beef or turkey, used whole-grain buns, and loaded the burgers with vegetables. I bought some healthy cookbooks for inspiration and found new favorites, like spinach-and-tomato scrambled eggs. Eventually I phased out burgers and pizza, but I still eat those foods for a weekend treat.

THE FITNESS
Losing weight was never an option during my foot­ball days, so the strategies were new to me. I kept up with the plyometrics and intense interval train­ing, and I started going out on longer runs. I ran in the evening, when my fast-food cravings usually struck, to help keep my mind off food. Gradually I built up my endurance to revisit basic weight-training exercises, like hang cleans and bench presses. I also took up jujitsu, which would have nearly killed me when I was pushing 300. 

THE REWARD
I used to be winded after walking up a flight of stairs. Now I run a set of 500 stairs at least three times a week. After losing the weight and kicking my butt back into shape, I even tried out for a Can­adian Football League team. Although I didn't make it, I had the energy to give tryouts my all.

Why run Stairs?
It's a great no-gym workout to improve your speed, power, and overall fitness, says Martin Rooney, M.H.S.C.S.C.S. Plus, stairs offerthese additional benefits.A. Stairs make yourquads and glutes workharder. More work frombigger muscles meansmore calorie burn.B. Stairs demand effortfrom your upper body,furtherjackingupyourheart rate.

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You, But Stronger












Every passing year brings more reason for the mature man to pick up a barbell. And press it. And lower it. Repeat. Why every man should lift weights


Indulge us for a moment by flexing your right arm.

Assuming you have an average build—and trust us, you do—your arm is packing about 5 pounds of muscle. It represents nearly 10 percent of the total muscle on your body.

Now, imagine that muscle gone. No biceps, no triceps—only a jiggly mass of skin and fat covering your bones from your shoulder down to your fingertips. That 5 pounds of muscle is about the same amount most men lose between the ages of 24 and 50. And that number doubles by the time they're 60. In fact, once a man passes the half-century mark, he can expect to lose 1 percent of his muscle each year for the rest of his life.






 


That is, unless he does something about it.

And there's good reason for intervention: The natural erosion of muscle and strength that comes with aging leads directly to weak bones, stiff joints, and a slumped posture, and increases your risk of developing heart disease, diabetes, and a host of other maladies. But there's no reason you can't maintain a healthy, strong musculature well into your 90s if you use man's most effective antiaging weapon: resistance training.

"Lifting weights regularly signals your body to fight to keep your muscle," says Jeff Volek, Ph.D., R.D., an exercise and diet researcher at the University of Connecticut. That means a longer, healthier life. And we can prove it. Here's why every Best Life reader should be lifting weights even if he doesn't give a damn about the size of his biceps.
 


Lifting is good for the gray matter
Researchers at the University of Michigan found that men who performed three total-body weight workouts per week for 2 months lowered their blood-pressure readings by an average of 8 points. That's enough to reduce the risk of a stroke by 40 percent.
 


It strengthens bones
As you age, you lose bone mass, increasing the likelihood that you'll one day suffer a debilitating fracture in your hips or vertebrae. That's even worse than it sounds, since Mayo Clinic researchers found that 30 percent of men die within 1 year of breaking a hip.

In addition, significant bone loss in your spine can result in perpetually rounded shoulders and dowager's hump, eventually transforming you into a 21st-century Quasimodo. Resistance training can help you avoid this fate. Recent research in the Journal of Applied Physiology found that men who lifted weights for 16 weeks increased their hip-bone density by 3.8 percent and raised their blood levels of osteocalcin (a marker of bone growth) by 19 percent.
 


You'll get more years out of your old jeans
A study in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that for every pound of muscle a man loses, he gains a pound of fat. In other words, that 5 pounds of muscle that most men lose by age 50 is typically replaced by 5 pounds of fat.

Not only does that make you look flabby, but it also increases your pant size, even if your scale-weight remains the same. "One pound of fat takes up 18 percent more space on your body than 1 pound of muscle," says Volek. Bottom line: Keep your muscle, and you'll fend off fat.
 


And maybe touch your toes again
Between the ages of 30 and 70, flexibility decreases 20 to 50 percent, making it harder for your joints to move through their full range of motion. For example, if you can't squat down until the backs of your thighs touch your calves (most men can't), you have tight hip flexors, which limits movement at the knees, setting you up for injury.

In a study published in the International Journal of Sports Medicine, researchers found that three full-body workouts a week for 16 weeks increased flexibility of the hips and shoulders by more than 30 percent and improved sit-and-reach test scores by 11 percent. So there's still hope that someday you may once again be able to touch your toes. Weights can get you there.
 


It negates the danger of eating potatoes
Every time you eat fast-burning carbohydrates, such as white bread, rice, and potatoes, your level of insulin—a hormone that helps keep your blood sugar normal—rises dramatically. That's a problem because consistently elevated insulin increases your risk of diabetes and heart disease.

But lifting can help: Researchers at the University of Massachusetts found that men who added two full-body weight workouts a week to their existing aerobic exercise program had insulin levels that were 25 percent lower after a meal that was high in carbohydrates than the levels of men who performed the same aerobic exercise program but didn't lift weights.
 


You'll keep more fast-twitch muscles
It's not just the quantity of the muscle you lose that's important to pay attention to but also the quality. Research shows that the aging process reduces the size of your fast-twitch muscle fibers by up to 50 percent but shrinks the size of slow-twitch fibers by less than 25 percent.

That's significant because your fast-twitch fibers are the muscles largely responsible for generating strength and power (the key to peak sports performance when you're young) and helping you easily get out of a chair when you're old, says Alex Koch, Ph.D., an exercise researcher at Truman State University.
 


You'll rev your metabolism
Your body requires energy to digest food. So every time you eat, you actually burn some of the calories you've just consumed—typically, 15 to 20 percent. However, researchers at the University of Nevada found that you will burn 73 percent more calories when you eat right after you lift weights.

Even better, scientists in the Netherlands calculated that men who lifted weights two times a week for 18 weeks burned an average of 9 percent more calories a day than non-lifters did. That's enough for the average man to lose 25 pounds in a year without making any changes to his diet.
 


Weight lifting will make you whistle
In a 2004 study at the University of Alabama, researchers found that older men who performed three weight workouts a week for 6 months improved their scores on measures of confusion, tension, anger, and overall mood. Although unsure of the mechanism, study author Gary Hunter, Ph.D., suggests, "It could simply be a feeling of accomplishment from having become fit and more confident in themselves."

Makes sense: The study participants reversed a decade of age-related muscle loss and fat gain, by adding 4 pounds of muscle and dropping 3 pounds of fat, while increasing strength by an average of 42 percent.

Those results would improve any man's mood.

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Gym Advise

My gym has seven different abs machines. Should I use them?
Sure, but don't make them the foundation of your abs routine* Your abs are made ot the same tissue as every other muscle in your body, which means you have to train them the seme way: twicee a week wtih a variety of exercises (to prevent adaptation and facilitate growth).
Abs machines can be part of that variety, but researchers at San Diego State University found that body-weight movements, such as the bicycle crunch, bum up to 250 percent more calories than any otr*er kind of abs exercise*

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4 Moves For A beach Worthy Body

Insider Trainig: The Best Four moves to build a beach-worthy body. Despite all ol your gravy-soaked gluttony, you likely gained only a pound between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day. That's the average tor American men, according to research by the National Institutes of Hearth, Unfortunately that same research shows that most guys never—yes, never— shed their holiday leftovers.

Indeed, between the ages ot 35 and 45, the majonty of us pack on the equivalent of a honey-cured ham. It's a bleak prospect, especially if you consider the traditional fix: hours spent slogging away on a treadmill.

Allow us to offer a more palatable alternative, albeit with a hard-to-swallow name; card© circuit training. -By splitting your indoor cardio session between several different exercises, you'll bum more calories," says Jeffrey Dolgan. an exercise physiologist at Canyon Ranch, a fitness retreat in Massachusetts. "You'll also prevent your muscles from adapting to one movement, and the less they adapt, the faster they'll grow.1* And rf you add intervals (alternating short bursts of all-out effort wtth active recovery) to your training, you'll torch 90 percent more fat than training at a consistent pace, according to scientists at Laval University, in Quebec, Run through the foflowing 45-minute routine twice a week. Warm up with five minutes of each exercise at a "conversational" pace, and then complete a six-minute circuit in which you alternate four times between 30 seconds of intense effort and one minute of active rest- You'll be rewarded with a flatter stomach in record time, without feeling like a hamster on a wheel.Stair climber Face away from the console. You'll bum signrf icandy more calories than if you assume a forward-facing position. "We're not designed to walk backward," explains Dolgan* "and to do so you need to engage many more muscles and work harder to keep your body upright." Mix up the depth and pace of your stepping as well to prevent your muscles from adapting. If you normally take shallow steps, for example, do deep, slow steps for two of tho 30-socond Intervals. Spin bike; After your warm-up, increase the resistance as if you were climbing a hill, and stand up and spnnt for 30 seconds. 'Not only will you use a different set of muscles—including those in your core— but you'H break up the monotony of your nde," says Dolgan. He also advises against reading and riding. "If youVe able to catch up on the news, you're not going fast enough." Aim for a cadence of 80 to 100 rpm. Rowing machine: Form is everything on the rower, especially when you're giving max effort Initiate the drive with your legs, and then pun the handle into your sternum, says Dolgan. On the recovery, keep your legs
flat as the handle travels away from your body, and then allow your torso to p. vol over your hips as you bend your knees to return to the starting position* Treadmill: After your warm-up, increase the angle of the incline to 1 percent. British researchers found that this angle most ctosery approximates running outside, causing you to bum just as many calories as If you were pounding the pavement, "Your indoor time might suffer as a result," says Dolgan, "but you'll shed pounds faster."

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