4 steps to get that hot girl

A daunting task for any man, but it's not as impossible as you think - you just need to know how to play the game .THE ART OF bagging seem­ingly unattainable women has been an obsession of men for centuries, but in recent years, the popularity of books like Neil Strauss' diary/man­ual The Game has kicked the business of pick-up education into a higher gear.

So you've read the theory; but can you teach an awk­ward, nervous nerd how to zero in on a beautiful target and get her back to his bou­doir in a matter of hours? Vicky Kalwani is a Mumbai-based banker by day, dating expert by night, who offers private classes on how tosnare smoking-hot ladies without taking on a bank loan or a personal trainer. He gives us some of his top tips. 

Don't face a woman straight on; it's too direct. Try walk­ing past her sideways and then turning to speak. Forget rehearsing funny one-liners; start with a very boring ques­tion - something she can't fail to answer - like asking the time. Immediately follow the line with a joke (that can be rehearsed). Then you're in conversation, but it's not an obvious routine. 

The most important thing once you're in a conversa­tion is for her to get cues of acceptance from others. If she's in a group, make sure you spend time getting along with the guys. Get her used to having some physical contact with you, but don't be clingy. Touch her hand and then push her away jokingly. The hotter the girl, the more you'll need to gently make fun of her. Gorgeous women are used to having men fawning over them constant­ly, so you want to be a little elusive - make her chase you. 

When trying to get a date, remember it's a numbers game. If you approach 10 girls in a night, you're likely to have success with one or two. Don't read too much into rejection; there are plenty of women out there better suit­ed to you. When you do get a girl's number, make a plan and invite her - this gives her the option of a simple yes or no. When you're on the date, don't wait until the end to make physical contact or move in for a kiss. If she's really interested, an early kiss will actually relieve the ten­sion instead of building it up to a big moment at the end of the night.

 If you think things are going very well, tell her you're both going back to your place/ her place (whichever is more comfortable). That means she can go along with it without even needing to say yes - or dismiss the idea if she's not interested. It puts less pres­sure on her. If you're plan­ning to go back to your place, remove the clocks from the room you'll be hanging out in and invest in a good carpet. Most of all, be as cool as you can be. No one likes a guy who's too eager. ©

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